
Progress is about ideas and about people. The best bits of the general election campaign for Labour allowed us to talk about both ideas and people; whether it was on Sky News or on the doorstep.
During the campaign, I remember talking to my neighbours in Hornsey and Wood Green about our local community and how political parties need to work harder to reflect and be part of the communities they represent. We talked about schools, hospitals, roads, housing and of course the recession.
But the sad fact for Labour is that few of my neighbours talked about any people in the Labour party who they could trust on these issues, or any other issues.
During the election in London, most voters had an active Labour candidate out and about in their community, talking to people and putting the hours in on the doorstep – on the whole. But at a national level, no one at the forefront of the election campaign really managed to capture voters’ imagination on those key areas of policy.
While policy clearly isn’t everything, the key to a strong manifesto is having a spokesperson who can confidently articulate it to people who are focused on getting about their busy lives. At the general election 2010, Labour didn’t have that leader, and that cost us at the polls, in London and elsewhere.
But don’t get me wrong, spin is not the answer to substance, I firmly believe that a grown-up and robust policy discussion within the Labour party before an election is a welcome idea. The manifesto in 2010 was not an open or inclusive document. The process in which it was written was hidden and secretive; and our members across the country felt disconnected from the ideological and practical arguments that the document made.
After the leadership elections, and the parallel selection for Labour’s candidate to fight Boris for the mayor of London, Labour has a chance to renew its policy-making structures and approach the issue with a fresh pair of eyes; particularly in London where the party has over 60 per cent of its members.
The candidates running for leader of the party have a real opportunity to shake things up. They could take some simple steps to open up the debate by:
• Arranging non-member hustings for Labour party supporters who have never joined the party but want to hear more about the candidates and may be interested in signing up as members.
• Advocating a change to the policymaking structure of the party, by putting an end to CLP and conference motions and beginning a real conversation with people up and down the country, not just party members. Online tools and discussion could be used to facilitate this such as ‘open source’ projects.
• Trial a special London-wide Labour party policy event which is open to anyone who is willing to register as a party supporter. This could be organised now and the candidates for the party leadership should agree to take part in this to boost membership and renew our grassroots across London.
Any young person joining Labour, or Progress, or the Young Fabians will want to know how their views can help shape our party’s policy agenda. And it’s up to the Labour party to react positively and openly to this, not by returning to its member-only comfort zone.
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Great to see David blogging here, and I hope that today’s will set a trend for more forthright and challenging thoughts to come.
Whilst I agree that the Party needed to better articulate the vision encapsulated in the 2010 manifesto, we also must not let our members off Scott-free. So far in the many leadership hustings party members have been obsessing about the past and not how we want our next leader to lead the country (we hope) into the future. It’s right to demand more from our next leader, but don’t forget to expect more from members too!
There is a problem with the women in this culture. Yes, I know, there are problems with men, too. Believe me, I have heard about them for the last forty years. Some of it true and fair, much of it neither. It was a necessary dialogue just the same. So is this. To understand this we need a brief look at history. Women, in the past, were denied voting rights, couldn’t own land and didn’t have much access to employment that would give them the freedom to make it on their own. This needed to change, and of course, did, as can be confirmed with a cursory glance at the world around you. I laud those changes. But the problem was in how we got here. The reality is that the gender roles of our history were traps for both men and women. Women were relegated to home and children; men to sacrificial roles as protectors and providers. It wasn’t a conspiracy. It was just a matter of survival, and for many thousands of years it worked quite well to that end. But once men made the environment safe enough for women to metaphorically “leave the cave,” it was only natural and right that men change and allow that to happen. And ladies, we did. This is the simple but accurate truth of the matter. Men and women developed gender roles that facilitated the survival of the species. And once those roles were not necessary, they did begin the often complicated path to change. The problem here is that your knowledge of these historical events is largely shaped, convoluted rather, by feminism. Feminists taught you that your history with men was of unremitting evil; that you were chattel, slaves to men who held all power and shut you out with extreme intent. They even gave it a name. Patriarchy. It is a word that has become synonymous with oppression. But feminists were loathe to remind you that “Women and children first,” was the patriarchal mantra, and that much of the social norms, even when misguided, were a product of a code adopted for the sole purpose of preserving your life. It wasn’t always fair, but the unfairness wasn’t always yours. Men died by that code, and trained their sons to do the same. The fact that we still do is the subject for another essay. So what happened? As feminist distortions were increasingly embraced, and intertwined with the legitimate need for change, men did what they usually do. They reacted to the message and not the messenger and unblocked the entrance to that cave. Many of you spit on us on the way out. Many of you still do. It has to stop. This isn’t just about decency. And it is not just about the chasm of mistrust that separates us from each other, or the legions of the walking wounded from this godforsaken gender war. It is about our future. The vilification of men that you have accepted as appropriate now translates to catastrophe for our sons, for your sons. The problem is that what we say, think and feel about people invariably translates into what we actually do to them. Nowhere is this more evident than with our sons, in the here and now. If you take an honest look at the academic environment to which our boys are subjected, you will see that their masculinity itself is under attack with ideology that teaches them they are inherently flawed. Christina Hoff Sommers documented this in her highly recommended book “The War Against Boys.” She writes, “The pedagogy is designed to valorize females, such as teaching history in a woman-centered way. Boys are to be inspired to revere Anita Hill and to “enjoy” quilting. At the same time, schools discourage activities that are natural and traditional to boys, such as playing ball together.” She goes on to say, with sad accuracy, “Most parents have no idea what their children are facing in the gender-charged atmosphere of the public schools.” What Sommers didn’t add to that but I will is the fact that most parents have no idea about this because they choose not to. As girls and girls programs increasingly flourish, boys are falling to the sidelines in ever growing numbers. The results of that are chilling. Boys are more likely than ever to drop out of school and engage in delinquency and other problems. They are representing less college graduates every year. With this diminishing education and wholesale marginalization, they are on a fast track to being the “second sex,” that position that so many feminists touted as the greatest evil of human history when they claimed it applied to women. This is the lasting legacy of spitting on men. Your sons will not be the exception. Young men now grow up to be destroyed in corrupt family court systems where women are encouraged to and even praised for using children, their children, like pawns in order to drain the father of assets. And those same children also have their badly needed connection to their fathers severed in the process. When those exploited, abused children start quite naturally to act out and get in trouble, we blame the father who was removed against his will, for of all things, being absent. And the “freedom” women gained on this frenzied path of vengeance and victimization? It doesn’t appear to have settled well. Women are growing increasingly violent. They are matching men in domestic violence, blow for blow, and they are causing the lions share of injury and death to children in the home. But we don’t speak of these things. We are not supposed to. In your position as the identified victim, and mine as the identified perpetrator, there is supposed to be an indelible silence on these matters. For the most part, there is. That silence is destroying us. And it is a silence that is maintained with the collusion of shallow, weak men and misguided, self-serving women, which is to say most of the culture. The only answer I can think of is for men, and for women, to change. Perhaps you will consider this before concluding that men’s rights activists are whiners or woman haters or products of bad mothers. You might actually decide that most men’s rights activists are men who above all else, seek justice. For their children, for themselves, and ultimately for you. I hope that a few of you will read this and consider it the next time you hear someone say “men are pigs,” or when you hear a woman refer to her first born child as “the insurance policy,” or before you nod your head in unconsidered agreement with whatever negatives about men happen to be making the rounds. All of this will be visited on your sons, and their sons. I hope too, that some of you look at your sons and think, and ask yourself what kind of world in which you really want them to live. When your sons choose wives and marry, I hope you consider the agony they will go through when “taken to the cleaners” and robbed of their children in the family courts. You will be forced to stand by powerlessly and watch them have their hearts ripped out. As always, it will look much different to you when the system you help maintain with your silence crushes your son, and not just some obscure, unknown male whom you quietly think is getting what he deserves. It will happen to more than half of them. The best prevention for this last one is to teach our sons to choose carefully; to scrutinize a woman before committing his life and work to her; to evaluate her morals and values as a woman prior to putting a ring on her finger. or even whether it is wise any more to marry in the first place. But how can we do this if we keep teaching them that such evaluations are the stuff of misogyny? Indeed, how can we do this if scrutinizing women at all is such a taboo? And therein lies the rub, ladies. It is indeed time, just as it was for men, for women to be held to scrutiny, and to account. More importantly, it is time for women to do this on their own. I’ll do my best to provide a fair and compassionate mirror in my writings. It is always up to you whether that mirror is a place you want to look.